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Users Express Discomfort Over ChatGPT’s Unprompted Use of First Names

ByHilary Ong

Apr 22, 2025

Users Express Discomfort Over ChatGPT’s Unprompted Use of First Names

ChatGPT recently began greeting users by their first names. Nonetheless, this behavior has raised plenty of eyebrows and prompted extensive discussions among its user base. Everyone is rightfully confused and unsettled with this last-minute change. One drawback is that it came into effect all at once, with insufficient guidance on when, making it unclear what to expect for its rollout. This tech and the phenomenon it has spurred has caused a wave of predominantly negative backlash, with some critics decrying it as “creepy.”

The exact reason for this behavior shift remains unclear, though it may be connected to ChatGPT’s upgraded “memory” feature aimed at personalizing user interactions. Reports indicate that this first-name usage has been reverted, leaving users uncertain about the future of their interactions with the AI.

Lack of Communication and User Backlash

OpenAI has so far failed to respond to TechCrunch’s repeated requests for comment on the issue. The change in ChatGPT’s approach has not gone unnoticed. Many users took to social media platforms, such as X, to voice their concerns. Such a seemingly simple implementation has resulted in endless tweets of frustration from folks who do not appreciate the AI’s lack of panache.

Software developer and AI evangelist Simon Willison took to X, criticizing the development as “creepy and unnecessary.” Developer Nick Dobos expressed his categorical opposition to the change, stating simply that he “hated” it. Users have described the experience as akin to a teacher repeatedly announcing your name to the class, creating an atmosphere of anguish and shame.

The article emphasizes that “using an individual’s name when addressing them directly is a powerful relationship-developing strategy.” Long a staple of successful human persuasion, this tactic has become a primary method of influence in our digital landscape. It ended up backfiring for ChatGPT, as many users found that it exposed the AI’s synthetic nature.

As one reporter described the move, it was “disquieting.” This very idea speaks to a lot of users who are struggling with the ethical quandary of the AI pretending to be human. In a recent press appearance, OpenAI CEO Sam Altman suggested an even more thrilling moonshot. He imagines AI systems that learn about you over the course of your life, allowing for deeply personalized relationships that offer incredible rewards. This specific incident has begun a much larger conversation. It underscores the predicament that OpenAI now finds itself in as it races across the “uncanny valley” toward more human-like interactions with its technology.

Author’s Opinion

ChatGPT’s attempt to personalize interactions by using users’ first names has backfired, drawing backlash due to its unsettling and overly familiar tone. While personalization can enhance user experience, this approach without proper explanation or user control seems invasive and misaligned with user comfort levels. OpenAI’s failure to anticipate the reaction underscores the complexities of creating AI that strikes the right balance between efficiency, personalization, and ethical concerns, especially as we move toward more human-like interactions in the AI space.


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Hilary Ong

Hello, from one tech geek to another. Not your beloved TechCrunch writer, but a writer with an avid interest in the fast-paced tech scenes and all the latest tech mojo. I bring with me a unique take towards tech with a honed applied psychology perspective to make tech news digestible. In other words, I deliver tech news that is easy to read.

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